The Veil as a Symbol of Our Sacred Calling

As I was explaining the Bible story of Cain and Abel to my children the other night before bed, something about the story struck me like a lightning bolt. Let me tell you what it was.

My children were asking me, “Why didn’t God accept Cain’s offering?” I gave them my best explanation. Though there are several possible reasons why God did not accept Cain’s offering, one of them may have been that it was not an animal sacrifice, and this is the answer I gave them.

God had demonstrated to Adam and Eve after their fall into sin that it was necessary to sacrifice an animal for sin. Why? Because it had to foreshadow Christ dying for our sins one day on the cross. Blood had to spill. A life had to be cut off in place of ours. The skin of that animal had to cover Adam and Eve’s nakedness and shame just as Jesus’ sacrifice would cover our unrighteousness. Of course, the animal couldn’t take away sin. But it pointed to the One who could.

And Fruit is not a good representation of that.

Whether or not Cain’s offering was not accepted because of that, I will leave for the reader to decide. However, one thing I think we can all agree on is that in the Bible animal sacrifices were indeed very symbolic and were supposed to point to the ultimate sacrifice Christ would make for us on the cross.

In fact, God uses a large variety of symbols in the Bible. Can you think of some? How about the rainbow after the flood? The blood of a lamb during the first Passover? Manna in the desert? The serpent on a pole? Baptism? The Lord’s Supper? Our Creator often speaks to us through signs.

Think of the enormity of this and how it relates to headcovering: God has given us certain symbols that point to important spiritual truths. Replacing those symbols with something else would cause the meaning to be lost. So, similar to how an animal sacrifice couldn’t be replaced by fruit (if that sacrifice was for sin), if we try to replace the veil with an alternate object, we lose the spiritual connection God intended.

What sort of things does the veil symbolize? Why is it that only the veil can symbolize them?

♥ Headship (1 Cor. 11:3).

This is the main reason given for headcovering. God has established a hierarchy of roles (God-Christ-man-woman). According to this hierarchy, the woman is supposed to be in submission to the man; she is not in authority over him, but he is in authority over her. The roles for the man and woman are expressed through either uncovering or covering their heads while praying or prophesying. All the other arguments given in 1 Corinthians 11:2-16 seem to buttress this main point.

The woman’s role is not meant to be oppressive, but beautiful: The woman represents the Church as the Bride of Christ (which is a very honored and special position!), while the man represents Christ. Just as the Church is subject to Christ, so the wife is to her husband. She covers her head, not only to symbolize submission to her husband and male leadership in general, but to symbolize the Church’s submission to Christ (Ephesians 5:22-33; Colossians 1:18, 3:18-19).

The veil is placed over the head of the woman, symbolizing that she is under the authority of male leadership. She is not the head (meaning, authority), so she covers her own, physical head.

Huge symbolism here!

Some people think that when God commanded the woman to cover her head that the covering He was referring to is her long hair (or at least, a feminine style of hair) and not a piece of cloth. But, hair cannot do a good job of demonstrating hierarchy. Yes, long hair is feminine and can help show that a woman accepts her feminine role; I don’t disagree that hair is certainly A Natural covering. But, it cannot show that the woman is under authority like the veil can.

♥ Creation Order (2 Cor. 11:7-9).

The woman was created from the man and for the man. He came first, so he is the one who initiates and she is the one who follows his lead and supports his decisions. She is an aide to him as he obeys God’s directive for his life. The woman helps the man fulfill his calling. His calling is hers. She is not independent of him. Hers is the somewhat hidden role of helper and supporter, not the dominant role of leader and initiator.

This almost sounds as if she doesn’t have an identity apart from the man. Of course, as a Christian her central identity is in Christ! However, this doesn’t negate her created role as help meet. Her purpose as a woman while on this earth hasn’t changed over time. Yes, she can have her own dreams and goals. But, the big question is: How do those dreams and goals mesh with those of her husband? If they don’t fit, maybe they need to be reconfigured.

Think of how the headcovering can be a tool to help us remember the woman’s role as helper: When wearing a veil, her head is less visible, just as she has the less visible (and less audible) supportive role.

Less visible, but not less important, I would like to emphasize.

In my opinion, this whole concept can reasonably apply to her home life, her church life, and even her general role in society — basically every sphere of her life. What is God’s will for women in the 21st Century? Has it changed any since Bible times? I don’t think it has.

If we are to be consistent with what the Bible says about the creation of the woman and her God-given purpose, her role as helper should be focused on the home (Titus 2:3-5). This is where she’s needed the most. This is her calling. She is the guardian — the keeper — of her home and the children who live in it. This is her domain. She doesn’t have to be there all the time, but in order to be faithful to her duties as wife and mother, she needs to be there most of the time, under the roof of her own house.

Inherently, she is the “weaker vessel,” and as such her husband is supposed to protect her and care for her. What a wonderful place of protection her home can be for her, with a godly man for a husband.

Do you see how the veil can remind us of this, too? The woman’s main sphere of work and influence is her home, which shelters her under its protection. The woman is also under the protection of her father before she marries (and while still a minor), and her husband after she marries.

Now let’s delve a little deeper into her womanly role. God has made her with the beautiful privilege of growing new life hidden within her womb. In the dark, secret place of her uterus, a baby nestles and plays. God covers the baby inside her body; in other words, she herself is a covering for her little child!

Here is a beautiful quote I read recently having to do with this aspect of headcovering:

. . . anything that is precious, mysterious, and sacred is hidden from view. It is veiled. . . . In nature, God made the valuable things difficult to get to. . . . Women, by their physical nature, are the very vessels of life. So every woman — due to the nature of her God-given femininity — has a certain mystery and sacredness, which is her ability to cooperate with her husband and with God in the sacredness of creation. How appropriate that a woman’s awe-inspiring privilege is recognized by veiling! This is a deeply meaningful custom that has, unfortunately for women today, fallen by the wayside with many female church-goers. . . . Now that I understand that it is an honor for women to be veiled, I think that the veil is a beautiful way of honoring the sacred calling and privilege of women. [From Dressing with Dignity by Colleen Hammond; pages 29, 30, 31]

According to this author, the veil recalls to our minds how valuable the woman is since we naturally hide from view that which is most a treasure to us. What is one reason why the woman is a treasure? Because she helps the man do something impossible for him on his own.

Her body is a vessel for new life and deserves to be treated with special honor. She should be nurtured and guarded as a cherished treasure. When a man sees his wife wearing a veil, he might be reminded of this.

Now we are encroaching upon the realm of speculation. The Bible doesn’t say that a woman should cover her head to remind her husband that she is a life-bearer; it says that she should cover her head because she is under his authority. And that, while praying or prophesying and not necessarily at other times. However, it is interesting to reflect upon how the veil might have a range of connections to her role as a woman, within the total context of that role.

Why is her role “sacred”? Is it because she is super holy? No. There is nothing holy about her apart from the holiness of Christ within her, if she is a believer. It is her mission that is sacred. She is a woman with a holy mission to be all that God has called her to be as a woman. Is the veil “sacred”? No. It’s just a piece of cloth. There’s nothing magic about it. But, it’s what it points to that is sacred.

♥ Humility before an awesome God (1 Cor. 11:7, 13-15).

A woman’s hair cannot be her covering because it is her glory. Since 1 Cor. 1:29 says that “no flesh should glory in His [God’s] presence,” it makes sense for her to cover her own glory when praying or prophesying as a way of saying, “I’m not doing this for myself or to draw attention to myself. Look to God, instead.” Hair reveals, but the veil conceals.

Some people think that by wearing a veil she is drawing attention to herself. While it is true that it may make her stand out from the crowd, we must remember that the nature of what her “glory” is hasn’t changed over time, and neither has the need to cover it up when praying or prophesying. This is true whether people understand it or not. Being different in order to obey God is not the same as being different in order to try to get people to admire you.

Now think about this: another reason the woman has to cover her head with a veil is that she is a glory! Her hair is her glory, but Scripture also points out that “the woman is the glory of the man” (see verse 7).

Hers is an honored position. She manifests the nurturing, compassionate, sensitive aspects of humanity in her nature (not that men can’t be those things — Jesus was! — but women are naturally more so than men, generally). She has been given the privilege of bearing new life; that’s a “glorious” job! And she — if she is a godly woman — reflects well upon her husband by her sensible, pure, loving behavior; in other words, she brings “glory” to her husband.

God has given her an enormous honor by making her a woman! Instead of thinking of the veil as “oppressive,” we can choose to see it in a different light: As the quote above says, “anything that is precious, mysterious, and sacred is hidden from view.” She and her role as a woman are precious. God wants her to wear a veil not because He’s ashamed of her, but because He values her. The woman’s role is powerful — so powerful that He doesn’t want her to misunderstand or misuse it. That’s the way I look at it.

The veil is a beautiful and meaningful symbol. It seems to me that nothing can replace the veil as a symbol for the woman’s role as 1) being under male authority, 2) being the man’s helper and being under his protection, and 3) being the glory of man and needing to conceal that glory before God.

Just as God used symbols in the rest of the Bible to help us understand  certain spiritual truths, He has given us the veil to help us understand our earthly roles. And just as it was important for people in the Old Testament to use the right kind of symbol in their sin offerings (going back to the illustration I opened with), it is important for us to use the right kind of symbol in our worship. Anything else obstructs the intended meaning.

[Notes:

-In this article I have given some of my own opinions on what the headcovering might represent that are not explicitly, though they may be implicitly, supported by Scripture. They are my own thoughts, given here so that we can further “dissect” what our role is as women and how we could view the headcovering as a reminder of it.

-I am currently re-reading Dressing with Dignity. It is a book about dressing modestly, from a Catholic perspective. I am enjoying it all over again this second time around! I feel I should add, however, that I am not Catholic, nor do I endorse everything in the book. Nonetheless, I do appreciate the points the author brings up about modesty.]

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Please share your thoughts about headcovering / veiling in the comments section below. I look forward to seeing your responses!

~Jessica

22 thoughts on “The Veil as a Symbol of Our Sacred Calling

  1. Dios te bendiga!
    No me gusta comentar ni discutir ningun tema por intetnet porque al no tener contacto directo con la persona es posible que me malinterpreten! Pero en este caso siento que debo decir algo!

    Hebreos 11:4
    4 Por la fe Abel ofreció a Dios más excelente sacrificio que Caín, por lo cual alcanzó testimonio de que era justo, dando Dios testimonio de sus ofrendas; y muerto, aún habla por ella.

    Estimada Jessica, yo creo firmemente que fue por la FE y no por la ofrenda, que a Dios no le agrado la de Cain! Las ofrendas de grano eran aceptables ante Dios (Levítico 2). El problema en este caso fue que Cain no hizo su ofrenda con fe y su corazon estaba lleno de pecado y eso no le agrado a Dios!

    Eres libre de contestarme!
    Attentamente, Yira
    https://www.blueletterbible.org/Comm/guzik_david/spanish/StudyGuide_Gen/Gen_04.cfm

    1. Estimada Yira,
      Estoy de acuerdo con usted. 🙂 Pero, no quise dar una explicacion muy profunda y complicada en este articulo que es enfocado en un punto especifico. Queria llamar atencion a un aspecto de la cuenta de Cain y Abel que pense apropiado para el tema. Pienso que usted tiene un buen punto y pienso que yo tengo un buen punto, tambien — por que no podemos unir los dos puntos de vista, en el lugar de mirarlo como una cosa en contra de la otra? 🙂
      Gracias por su comentario — de verdad lo agradezco mucho!
      ~Jessica

      1. Why, isn’t this practiced more in the fundamental , independent , southern Baptist type churches, anymore? Its, in the Final Word of God; which is The King James Version Bible. Pastors, should preach a sermon on this ; and Pastor’s wives, should hand each women a covering, for her hair, or we should bring one. Most, women, are offended with male authority and have either a hard time with the word submission, obey, treating their husbands like Christ, or all of the above. It is indeed , a hard life style, to have to wear a symbol on your head , expressive and representative , of something you don’t like to do…and you can’t even remove it, without your husband’s permission, either. Not, only do we have to live in submission and obedience….But we need to wear it as part of our wardrobes. This, is something to be in prayer with God about, on a daily. It means we are constantly under our husbands control and he has more power over our lives; then we as women, want to admit to. But, still; all power comes from God and is ordained of God. We, are to be careful not to do anything with our lives, that dishonors out Master, the Lord Jesus Christ; or our husbands, our earthly masters. Our, husbands, our still out masters, as well…that hasn’t changed either.

        1. Covering is about our submission to Christ and to our husbands and about humility and modesty. But it is also a beautiful a positive expression of femininity

  2. That was a beautiful description of what headcovering represents 🙂

    However I don’t find the story of Cain and Abel to be a good comparison. I have heard that interpretation before, but while in a way it makes sense, in another it doesn’t. If only animals were fitting (at that time completely voluntary!) sacrifices, then there would have been only animal sacrifices in the law of Moses, which is not the case. Plus it’s interesting that it says the Lord didn’t respect Cain and his offering. It can’t be, that it was all about the offering – going by what it says, something was wrong with Cain too. Most translations don’t say what, but in the Septuagint (the translation of the old testament into Greek several years before Jesus was born) it records God having said to Cain “If you offer correctly, but do not divide correctly, have you not sinned?”
    I find this an interesting thought, that it had more to do with Cain not sharing properly with his brother. After all, humans didn’t eat meat until after the flood. Abel as a shepherd was dependant on Cain, a farmer, for food. Just thought I’d add that perspective 🙂

    1. Dear Erika,
      Good points! I didn’t want to go into a detailed explanation of the Cain and Abel story here. I just wanted to focus on one aspect of that story that I thought could be applicable to the theme of symbolism. I think you’re right, that there was something wrong with Cain, too. Probably, pride. I think we’re both right; it’s not necessarily one thing vs. the other. 🙂
      Thanks for sharing your thoughts!
      ~Jessica

  3. Here is an article that addresses the Cain and Abel issue from several different viewpoints. I personally think that it may have been a synthesis of them all, since Scripture seems to give hints of that. I’m going to edit my article so that it won’t conflict with any of those viewpoints. Thank you both (Erika and Yira) for your observations!
    https://answersingenesis.org/bible-characters/cain/why-didnt-god-respect-cains-offering/
    ~Jessica

  4. Thank you Jessica for yet another great article. I will answer the questions you posted.
    I most definitely believe that the veiling is a symbol of us willing to take our place under the authority of our husbands has noted in scripture. It isn’t a sign that we are poor, brainwashed, abused women.

    I consider it an honor to be under my husband’s protection because let’s face it, I don’t always use my brain. I’m learning to ask Tim and get his input on matters. For example last night was our turn to host our small group dinner fellowship. We scheduled for 5:00 but Tim needed to leave at 6 to take Shannon to rehearsals at the college. I thought about changing the time to 4:30 and was going to call everyone to come earlier. I was going to do so without asking Tim. The Holy Spirit spoke to me to ask Tim first. I did and it turned out that he thought 4:30 was too early. I’m glad I didn’t take it upon myself to change the time. It worked out well as a matter of fact. Tim and Shannon had time to eat before he had to drop her off at the school. He was back in time to have dessert and enjoy fellowship with the men.

    I’m not sure how to explain our sacred role as women. I think because we are the givers of life, we need to obey God’s Word that tells us to be keepers at home. Our headcovering is sacred due to the fact, that it points people to Jesus. Now I’m going out on a limb with this next statement but I truly believe that the covering should not confuse people who might think a Christian woman is Muslim. I watched several YouTube Christian headcovering tag videos and honestly if I were to see some of these ladies on the streets I would think they were Muslims. One woman said because of her hijab some family members called her a terrorist. These ladies I could see they had a sweet countenance but I felt they needed to pray about what type of covering to wear. Anyway, I got sort of off topic. I look forward to the other ladies comments.

    1. Dear Regina,
      Thanks for your wonderful input!
      I could totally relate to your story. The same things has happened to me, too! What a wonderful thing it is that our husbands can help us see things we might have missed!

      Good points about our sacred role and about the veil pointing others to Jesus. I think that it does, even if other people don’t always understand the significance of it right away; they know that we are different and live on a higher plane than the rest of society, if you will. In other words, it’s a light on a hill.

      I also agree with you about needing to wear a covering that looks distinctly “Christian.” I have infinity scarves which I wear sometimes. I hope they don’t look like a hijab. I try to make them loose around the face and neck. But, though they do look pretty, they’re not my favorite. I like the triangular scarf best! 🙂

      ~Jessica

  5. Another book on modesty you may be interested in is “A Return to Modesty” by Wendy Shallat. Blessings on your house, ~Moriah

  6. I believe one of the advances on being one of very few ladies who cover these days is, that we who decided to cover, do so very conceously.
    We read about it , we prayed about it , we thought about it, many even studied about it. Many of us tried hard to find out a way around that conviction. In the end we decided to submit to the Lord our father.
    I think this helps to discover the true meaning behind it.
    It encourages me personally to try to live out the submissive part, the ‘glorious ‘part. Even the fact that i stick out in the crowd has brought me to be more aware about my testamony regarding carrying myself or acting towards others.
    So it has helped to make my marriage better, to live out my mother role in a more loving way. The Head covering issue made me rethink biblical womanhood. Hopefully i might be a pleasing sight in Gods eyes and also the angels eyes.
    My conviction gets challenged at times but all in all i count it a Blessing to accept what i understand as Gods headship order.

    1. Dear Ruth,
      Wonderful testimony! I could relate to all that you said! I hope many women will see your steadfast obedience to God and be blessed by it! You are being a light. 🙂
      ~Jessica

  7. Many sincere christian women have served family and people wholeheartedly in less known places since from the era of early churches.Most of them did not left their name in visible church history.But I think that their role has been sacred,and God never forget the ladies.
    Headcovering always reminds me of such ladies-our sincere sisters somehow.Maybe this symbol is quite opposite from modenism and feminism which praise visible success and self realization.
    Women in veil are beautiful.I like you in the photo!

  8. I have thought and prayed about this a lot. My conclusion is that as a Christian woman I should cover and that I should let that covering inspire me too feminine submission.

    1. Dear Susanne,
      “My conclusion is that as a Christian woman I should cover and that I should let that covering inspire me to feminine submission.” Yes! . . . I agree! Beautiful way of phrasing it. 🙂
      ~Jessica

  9. This was an absolutely lovely article, Jessica! Thank you for these beautiful thoughts on the meaning behind headcovering.

    I completely agree with the point that we are not given the option to replace biblical signs with different signs of our own choosing. I usually hear just that, the old, “veiling was a sign that a woman was married; today, we use the wedding ring.” But God doesn’t give that as an option. Just think how ridiculous it would sound with other biblically commanded signs:

    – “God commanded holy communion, but we choose just to go bowling together instead.”

    – “God commanded baptism, but we just ask someone get Jesus tattoo instead.”

    Not only is this disobedience, but it violates all of the symbolism of a sign’s original intent.

    Love what you have to say here, and I enjoyed reading the other ladies’ comments as well!!

    Love,
    Diana

  10. You explained this so well! Like how you mentioned how wearing it reminds you of your biblical role(s) as a woman! hen I see a woman covered I automatically assume she is submitted to Christ, her husband, and church authority :). Everything you mentioned was spot on. Equal but different roles. God’s design is beautiful and fits so well. God bless sister.

    1. Thanks, Kevin! Sometimes when I write an article, I wonder if I’ve written clearly enough for other people to understand my meaning. I’m so happy to hear that evidently, I do! Thanks for the kindhearted support!
      ~Jessica

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